Discover what awaits you and your lover inside

YesNoMaybe is an erotic resource aimed at advising, educating and inspiring couples on intimacy within their relationships. Our service includes a free Yes, No, Maybe list for members to complete and share with another. Once the two part survey is finalized, each member can view an assessment identifying their sexual persona.  This in-depth analysis describes one's unique physical needs and blind spots while identifying the range of their sexual comfort zone and ideal partner's compatibility. 

Complete and Compare Yes, No, Maybe Lists

It is our belief that a carefully thought out and honestly answered Yes, No, Maybe list sparks sexual communication and raises happiness in a couple.  By explicitly stating our desires and boundaries, people can come together in a safe and consensual manner to explore their kinky yearnings.  YesNoMaybe allows individuals to complete their own list of various sexual acts and understand themselves better.  Individuals answer 'Definitely', 'Yes', 'Maybe', 'Fantasy Only' or 'No' to each of the numerous kinks.  Once completed and a sharing agreement is made, our service automatically compares the lists while ranking activities based on the highest mutual interest.  Couples are then encouraged to explore their sexuality on their own with the understanding on what is allowable for each person. This service is FREE to all members!

Use DISC Theory to Learn Your Sexual Persona

Developed by Dr. William Marston, DISC theory was initially introduced in 1928 as one of the first personality describing mechanisms.  Originally categorizing people based on traits of Dominance (D), Inducement (I), Submission (S) and Compliance (C), this psychological tool was developed to explain the varying predispositions innately within us.  YesNoMaybe applies the DISC concepts to our survey in order to help one understand their own sexual leanings.  While there are no better or worse sexual personas, our free service identifies stereotypical strengths or challenges for each type along with typical intimate compatibilities you have the most chemistry with.  Understanding your sexual self is the first step to authentic connections with others.  

Free Assessment Includes

Automatic determination of your DISC quadrant based on your survey results.  Understand what your persona gifts and blind spots are in order to raise personal awareness. 

Illustration of your persona's sexual comfort range. Know your safe boundaries and where you can move or meet another without stressing your intimate being.

Analysis on your ideal companion's persona.  See what your persona typically looks for in a partner and how your intrinsic needs align.

Join the YesNoMaybe Experience Today

Create a free YesNoMaybe account to complete and share your kink list with a lover. We match interests and only show activities with a mutually positive score.  Once finalized the list is available for review by each member and kinks are ranked by strongest desires.  Our platform is a great way to begin opening up on sexual topics with another and is free for everyone!

Connect and Play with the YNM Community

Each member of YesNoMaybe is granted access to the community forums.  Here, should one choose, people can interact with one another to exchange information or ideas on any number of topics.  While members are expected to be respectful of one another and the beauty of diversity, YesNoMaybe actively moderates discussions to prevent negativity, bullying or any behavior that should not be tolerated.  We welcome all peoples from all walks of life and strive to make a safe place for our members to congregate.  As for in person meetups, YesNoMaybe has been known to throw a little party now and then but we'll talk about that later! 

Learn about Intimacy in a Safe Environment

An individual's sexuality is a very personal trait and can take a lot of courage to discuss. With YesNoMaybe, our members can have the discreet protection of an online presence where they will not be known or judged by family, friends or neighbors. We are here to help guide and inform in a friendly, respectful environment.

Explore your 'Maybes'

The key to growth is to expand your comfort range with contemplation, and possible immersion, into unfamiliar yet non-threatening areas. In a sexual sense, those places are easily identified by the items marked 'Maybe' on your YNM list.

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Intimacy During Uncertain Times

As the COVID-19 pandemic continues across the globe, many individuals must choose between personal safety and physical intimacy. During these times it is important to reflect our human emotional and sexual needs.

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Do You Think Your Fantasies Are Unique

While we all have sexual desires, some we like to keep tucked away in the darker recesses of our minds.  A new publication on a study of kinks sheds some light on the commonality of our fantasies...even those we hide away.

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YesNoMaybe is NOT for Everyone!

This website contains adult themed content. While there is no pornography or nudity within any of the images on this website, only adults should enter. YesNoMaybe also understands and respects differing opinions on sexual satisfaction and liberation of all peoples. If one does not find interest in this website and its content, please leave and provide our members the same respect we will afford you.